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Be the star of your life

Being the Star of your own show, discovering yourself, being yourself, for yourself is the ultimate gift you can give to yourself and the healing of humanity. 
This doesn't mean being self centered it points to recognizing that you/I are central to your/my own life.

Some will try and control and strive for power over others. This happens subtly in everyday relationships, families, work and on the bigger global scale. Those who need to control and dominate others have little or no mastery over themselves unfortunately.

Dont take anything personally- 3rd agreement Ruiz

This is a great Agreement to master with one's self

I don't know

Three little words that have the power to free us all . 

I have many many questions, but very few answers ( luckily the few answers answer most questions ultimately) 
But my point is...it's OK not to have an answer!
Of course the mind hates this. The mind hates uncertainty, of not knowing . It can't be comfortable unless it has a solution! 
Sit with this discomfort , allow it ..smile at the mind ...squirming and wrestling for the "right" answer , for it all to make "sense" 

unbecoming

Unbecoming , unraveling oneself . This is the spiritual work . Being " spiritual " does not mean getting better at this or that ... It means unbecoming everything we are not . A great part of the spiritual work is to unlearn everything that has been learnt throughout life ... A flower doesn't have any beliefs or doctrine . A flower doesn't sit for an hour's meditation or yoga and then behave unconsciously throughout the day . A flower doesn't judge what's good and bad ...it just accepts what is ...a flower is a perfect example of how one could live a " flowering " life ! Letting go of the masks and layers we wear is a huge part of unbecoming who we are not and becoming who we truly are ....simple !!! This is one persons perspective!

Bad Vibes

I am allowed to have "bad vibes " too ! So are you !!! Remember we are on earth to learn and grow and in that process we can feel all manner of emotions ...none of them wrong ... The love and light brigade also have a dark side ---we are all capable of feeling rage, envy, greed and hate ....how honest we are with ourselves determines how quickly we can reset and come back into a place of balance ...self observation , self awareness and non judgement is a form of this airy fairy "self love" thing that some of us talk about 

The cosmic game

What would life be like if we were all self masters ? What if we didn't need to discover that we are " IT" - GOD via suffering ? What if we remembered very early on in life ? What gifts and skills would we be able to develop ? What would it feel like to live in the higher states of consciousness? Would it be a complete love fest as some of you imagine .. Or is being oneness even better than human love ? What if we all realized and experienced the oneness in human form , would we still be a human being or another more evolved being ?

Self Forgivness














We teach what we need to learn the most !!!! 
Dont say "Sorry" . Say " Thank you for showing me as I am "
No need for apologies , just a recognition of what we are thinking / feeling / doing .Once we acknowledge how we are , we can then proceed to thank the other who has shown us , for enlightening us and helping us to grow as we are now  self aware  . Awareness is the light of consciousness ! Wherever we shine our light of consciousness the darkness and the dark parts of us are illuminated and can be owned and become part of the whole .Then comes self forgiveness ...no need to seek forgivness from others for that doesn't free us ...what frees us is our ability to accept how we are , how we have been and guess what ...love ourselves anyway , regardless . We can then move on, let go and proceed with a bit more self belief , and the darker parts no longer have so much power and domination over us and we need not hide from ourselves anymore

The Four Agreements - Dom Miguel Ruiz

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